Why Do All The “Runners” Hate Each Other?

This piece ran in the Arizona Daily Star, Tucson Sentinel, and the Green Valley News in 2023. It speaks to how I try to conduct myself as an elected official and how I will conduct myself during my re-election campaign:

We recently lost Rosalynn Carter. After her husband lost the 1980 presidential election, they both started the Carter Center to help further causes like democracy, human rights and peace. The Center has established five principles for trusted elections: honest processes, civil campaigns, secure voting, fair oversight and trusted outcomes. An offshoot of the Center in our state, the Arizona Democracy Resilience Network (ADRN), publicizes and promotes these principles.

One day after Mrs. Carter passed, the ADRN held an interfaith prayer service for democracy at St. Philip’s in the Hills Church. One of the ADRN’s leaders, former Congressman Ron Barber, was a featured speaker, as were many faith leaders from around our region. Each one of them addressed the crucial need for all Americans to commit to these five principles to protect and preserve our electoral processes. This is especially vital in a time when some politicians, in order to further their own selfish ends, promote falsehoods about the accuracy, fairness and security of our elections.

Prior to my election as a supervisor, I served as a teacher and administrator in our public schools for almost 30 years. Getting back into our schools and talking with students about Pima County government and the roles it plays in their lives gives me great joy. Not too long ago, I visited a K12 public charter school and met with students from their elementary, middle and high school grade levels.

A third grade boy posed a question near the end of my presentation that informed and saddened me. At his young age, he knew that political candidates “run” for the offices they seek. He therefore referred to us as “runners.” His poignant and telling question was:

“Why do all the runners hate each other?”

His question demonstrated that he was already acutely aware of the divisive and toxic nature of politics in his time. The nods and murmurs of assent from his schoolmates of various ages showed their painful understanding as well. I tried to offer a response equal to the seriousness of the question, but could do no better than stale platitudes about how adults needed to be better examples for him and his peers.

During each of the town halls I have conducted with my constituents since that school visit, I have shared this story. It always evokes a knowing response from the adults in the room. After telling the story, I talk about the two commitments I have made to show that student that I understood what he was telling me.

The first commitment is to keep in mind what I tried to remember as both a parent and as an educator: our children are always watching us. They also pay more attention to what we do than what we say. Our actions as their role models exemplify the honorable conduct we hope for from them in the future.

The second commitment is to do what I can as both an elected leader and a candidate not to contribute to the ugliness and negativity he could sadly attest to at a very young age. The Center calls on candidates to conduct “civil campaigns” as one of their five principles. Those of us entrusted with public office must also do the people’s work in a civil manner that sets the right example for all of our constituents, especially the youngest ones.

With next year being one in which we will elect people to serve in local, state and federal offices, all of us planning to be “runners” in those elections need to be mindful of the fact that all the people we seek to serve will be watching how we conduct ourselves. We have a duty to each of them to be true to the values and beliefs that undergird our electoral systems and processes. We need to be ever mindful that those who represent our posterity will watch us most closely.